The Roberts in Korea

the end of an adventure . . .

“. . . we found ourselves looking upon a familiar sight. We were home. How do you pick up the threads of an old life?” –Frodo, Lord of the Rings: Return of the King (movie)

A little more than eight years ago the Roberts family of four packed our bags and we left our home in Boise for what looked to be a two year adventure in South Korea.

Little did we know that two years would turn into eight!

For Ryan, Dina, Becca and Sarah, South Korea was eight glorious years of high adventure and unique experiences: new schools, job opportunities, sports, music, travel, theater, new cultures, sights, sounds, tastes, challenges, education, growth, opportunity, loss, gain, precious memories and many new friendships.

It is has been said that even though the days may be long—and at times arduous—the years are short. Touché.

Eight years . . .

Becca and Sarah both spent all of their junior high and high school years at an international school in South Korea. They thrived in their academic studies, played sports, performed lots of music, traveled the world and made many friends along the way.

Dina loved on, invested in and taught scores of Kindergarteners from different countries throughout the world.

Ryan completed a doctoral degree, interacted with professionals throughout the world in the realms of education and ministry and learned more about school leadership, business, finance and administration than he ever wanted to know.

Over eight years we all learned so much about the Korean culture. We lived into its rich depth and beauty with the help of the gracious Korean people. There are no words to express the love and appreciation we feel for our Korean friends.

Through it all, the Lord Jesus Christ helped us and sustained us. What a joy it was to experience the adventure of Korea together—as a family. God’s presence went before us and blessed the work of our hands. We thank God for the many good gifts He bestowed upon us over our time in South Korea.

Now, eight years later, we (Dina and Ryan) find ourselves “home”—living again in our house in Boise. Our girls are both away at college. Our years in Korea exist as a treasured memory. On the outside things look the same, but in reality they, and we, are very different.

“How do you pick up the threads of an old life?”

Maybe the answer to that question lies in the midst of a new adventure . . . and a new blog.

With this post, The Roberts In Korea blog comes to an end. What a joy it has been to record and share on this blog - in word, picture and video - the moments and memories of our life in Korea.

Thanks for your interest in us as we have, “lived the adventure of life on the other side of the world.”

departing Korea

In early May we packed up our belongings and sent thirty-eight boxes over the Pacific Ocean to our house in Idaho.  Last Saturday we packed the rest of our stuff into nine suitcases and boarded a plane bound for Idaho.

After eight years of residing in South Korea, we gave up our alien cards and moved back to the USA.  The Zickefoose family was booked on the same flight as we were to the USA, so together we chartered a TCIS bus to take us to the airport for the final time.

Our good friend, Mr. Hwang drove the bus and both he and the TCIS guard, Captain Song, helped us load our stuff onto the bus.  They are treasured friends, always looking out for us and caring for us, right up to our very last minutes in Korea.

Our time in Korea has been such a blessing.  It is sad to leave the place and the people, but we carry with us precious memories and treasured friendships.

see you next time . . . Azuma Kimbab

There have been a few tears shed as we have been saying goodbye to friends here in South Korea.  One of the hardest goodbyes was when we said goodbye to Jaeyoung and his wife at Azuma Kimbab.

The Millers and the Roberts recently enjoyed a delicious farewell meal at Jaeyoung's place.  We reflected on years of fun and friendship.  Jaeyoung and his wife have helped us and served us in so many ways:  they assisted with travel plans in Korea, they taught us lots of the Korean language, they fed us great food when we didn't know what we were ordering, we shared many Christmas Eve gatherings together, we have sung songs together, we have celebrated each other's children, we have laughed together and cried together over the years.

We did a little bit of crying the other night in the midst of our goodbyes.  We didn't want to and we tried not to, but we cried.  Jaeyoung suggested that we not say goodbye, rather we say, "see you next time," because he plans to come visit the Roberts in Idaho and the Millers in Hong Kong.

It was a good idea until Jaeyoung started crying and the dam burst.  We all had a good cry together combined with lots of hugs.  It is hard to say goodbye to people that you love so much.

As we walked up the street away from Jaeyoung's restaurant we heard him say, "see you next time."  

We can hardly wait.

farewell meals with friends

Goodbyes are hard, but oh so necessary as they serve to acknowledge and affirm the impact that colleagues and friends have played in one's life story.  They give the story color, essence and life. Without them the story would be boring.

There are too many precious people in South Korea for us to say goodbye to them all, but we enjoyed some nice farewell meals with friends over the past couple of weeks.

  Some of the folks in these pictures are:  Barbara, Kate, Ms. Jung and Wha Yun from the Admissions Office; Nurse Bossard, Ms. Jung and Mr. Yum (we enjoyed a delicious meal of Beijing Duck); all of the great guys from the General Affairs Department at TCIS (what a treasure they are); Sarah Kim, Lee Smith, Mr. Hwang, Ms. Nam, Ms. Shin and Crystal from the Business Office (oh, how we laughed).

We are thankful for friends and memories.

Taecheon Beach with Danika

Sarah enjoyed having her friend, Danika, here in Korea for just over a week and a half.  One of the places that Sarah wanted to show Danika was Taecheon Beach.  So, last Sunday  we loaded up the car and headed toward the West coast of South Korea.  The traffic was light, the scenery beautiful and an hour and forty-five minutes later we spotted the beach.

Upon our arrival in Taecheon Beach we had a picnic lunch out of the trunk of our car and then we enjoyed ourselves--walking the beach, laying on the beach, wading in the water, perusing the shops and restaurants located along the beach and just hanging out.

Taecheon Beach is famous for a couple of things: the high mineral mud that thousands of people cover themselves in during the mud festival, and the seafood that is served in the many shops that line the  beach. 

We had a great day at the beach, enjoying the sights, the sounds, the smells, the cool water and the warm fellowship with friends.

Danika in Daejeon

It was such a treat to have Sarah's dear friend, Danika, with us for just over a week here in Daejeon, South Korea.  She was a blast to have around and she made the most of her visit to Korea.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Danika met lots of people and ate lots of Korean barbeque.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

More people and Korean food--this time, Shabu, Shabu!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sarah and Dani had great time in Seoul together.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sarah and Dani had lots of fun singing in Noraebang and trying all kinds of foods with friends.

 

an original song from Sarah

A few days before her graduation Sarah participated in a school sponsored Senior Retreat.  For three days and two nights her entire senior class hung out together, had fun, and went through sessions about transition from high school to college and about the challenges related to being a "Third Culture Kid."  They also did a ropes course and celebrated each other's talents at a "senior concert."

For the senior concert Sarah played the guitar and sang a song that she wrote.  It was well received.  Take a look:

 

more drama

There are a few loose ends to tie up on the blog from the past school year.  As the year finished, Sarah received the music award in the All School Departmental Awards Ceremony.  She has been involved in all kinds of music at TCIS:  IB music class, choir, small groups, solo performances, TCIS musicals and leading music and worship in chapel.  It was a great honor for Sarah to receive the music award.

The TCIS Drama Awards is always a highlight at the end of every school year.  This year many "stars" showed up to the event dressed to the nines.  As each attendee descended the stairs into the venue an announcement was made and applause ensued.  It was a fun event. 

Sarah and her escort, James, received the best dressed award and the highlight of the evening was when Sarah received the award for Best Actress in a Lead Role.  Sarah has enjoyed many years of fun and involvement in the TCIS Drama and Theatre Arts Program which has been under the excellent leadership of Heidi Zickefoose.  We are thankful for a great school experience and we celebrate Sarah's life and accomplishments.

more of Sarah's Graduation

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sarah's graduation ceremony was a fun event.  So many good memories, friends and activities.  Here are some more pics from that special day:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sarah and Becca singing at graduation

Sarah's high school graduation was a special day.  As a dad, I (Ryan) couldn't help thinking, "could it get any better?"  But it did!  Sarah and Becca were asked to sing at Sarah's graduation ceremony.  They sang a beautiful song (For Good) and they did a wonderful job.  What a joy it was for Dina and I to see Sarah graduate and to hear Sarah and Becca sing together.  Take a look at the video below: