Last Saturday Ryan attended and sang at his first Korean wedding. It was an interesting experience. The wedding hall was a five story building that had a wedding chapel and restaurant on each floor. The building was filled with people. On each floor there were weddings scheduled every hour on the half hour.
At a contemporary Korean wedding all of the guests come an hour early to the ceremony and pay for and eat a meal (buffet) that is available at the wedding hall. Following the dinner all of the wedding guests pack into the rather small wedding chapel for the wedding ceremony. As the attendees and guests of one wedding are filing out of the chapel the attendees and guests of the next wedding are pushing and shoving their way into the chapel to get good seats.
There are no back doors to the wedding chapel so the rear of the chapel is open to the large waiting area/hallway outside the chapel. The noise of the people in the hallway/waiting area is deafening and you would think somewhat intrusive to the wedding taking place in the chapel, but this is not the case. The noise outside the wedding chapel is matched by the noise inside the wedding chapel. While the wedding ceremony is taking place the people in attendance are involved in lively conversation. The ceremony goes on quietly at the front of the church while the wedding attendees have a rich time of visiting.
Singing at the wedding was a real privilege and quite an adventure. There was no time to practice in the chapel prior to the wedding (because there was a previous wedding going on) so when the minister announced my name over the din of the crowd I went up the front of the chapel with my piano player and began singing. I was shocked to find that the microphone that I was using was set up to sound like I was singing in a karaoke bar--complete with lots of reverb and a very loud volume.
As I was finishing the first verse of the song I was surprised to see bubbles begin blowing out of a bubble machine at the front of the chapel. As I stood there singing with bubbles swirling all around me the camera man that was video taping the wedding stepped directly in front of me and turned on his video camera floodlight and shone it directly in my face. I could barely read my music. For a minute there I started looking around for “Da Lovely Lennon Sisters” as I thought I was on the Lawrence Welk Show. All in all the song went well, the bride was beautiful and the wedding ceremony was a success. I will never forget my first Korean wedding.
(I must say that in the midst of the loud microphone, the swirling bubbles and the bright camera lights I was tempted to stick my finger in my mouth and make a loud popping noise at the end of my song.)
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